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Experimenting in the Bedroom: The Dangers of Going Too Far

If you are looking to improve your sex life, chances are you may be up for a little bit of experimenting.  Experimenting in the bedroom is how many couples improve their relationships and not only in the bedroom.  The only problem is that some individuals do not know that there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed.

Before you suggest experimenting in the bedroom to your partner or before you start doing, it is important to know that there are consequences for going too far.  Before closely examining those consequences, it is important to determine what too far actually means.  Here is the problem, many individuals are unsure.  You know your partner through.  Will he or she be turned on with the addition of a new sex partner or sex toys or will he or she be turned off?  You should know before you proceed.

As for what the consequences are to taking experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner’s feelings may be hurt.  Unfortunately, many spouses and significant others believe that experimentation is needed in the bedroom because they aren’t able to fulfill your desires enough on their own.  If this wasn’t bad enough, their mind may start to wander.  Do you really want to be with them any more?  Are you cheating?  Will you start cheating soon?

Another consequence to taking experimentation in the bedroom too far is the view that your partner may develop about you.  Do you want to add another sex partner into the mix?  If you do, your significant other may start to think very poorly of you.  She may think that you are sick or sex crazed.  If your main goal is to improve your overall relationship, not just the intimacy in the bedroom, this is an important factor that you will want to take into consideration before suggestion something extreme.

If you take experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner may no longer wish to have sex with you.  In fact, he or she may start to avoid having any form of intimacy with you.  This occurs for a number of different reasons.  Typically, if your partner is turned off by what you are suggesting, they are likely to put off having sex with you, even just for a short period of time.

If avoiding sex wasn’t enough, you may find your relationship coming to an end.  Unfortunately, many individuals, possibly just like you, do know how big of a deal experimentation in the bedroom can be.  Remember that there is a difference between trying a new sex position and having your spouse pretend to be an old girlfriend of yours or even bringing an old girlfriend into the bedroom.  If you are not careful with how you proceed, spicing up your intimacy may be the least of your problems.  You may find yourself alone and in an empty bed, having to start the whole process over again.

As you can see, there are a number of consequences to expecting too much of your partner in the bedroom.  Experimenting in the bedroom can help to spice up your sex life, but just be sure to use your best judgment.  Do not offer up suggestions that you already know your partner will refuse, as there may be serious consequences for doing so.

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100 Great Sex Games For Couples By Michael Webb, Relationship Expert.

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Experimenting in the Bedroom:  Should You Make a Change?

How is your sex life?  Does the thought of having sex with your partner get you revved up and excited?  If not, it may be time for a change.

For many couples, the thought of uneventful sex can be looked upon as a required task or a duty, as opposed to a period of enjoyable pleasure.  As relationships grow and expand in time, so should a couple’s sex life.  If this is not what is happening with your relationship, a change may be needed.  Unfortunately, many men and women believe that change requires a new sex partner, but that doesn’t have to be the case.  There are a number of ways that you can your current sex partner can experiment and bring new life into your bedroom.

It is important to know that there are many new bedroom techniques and tricks readily available for couples to try.  These new techniques and tricks may be just what your sex life and relationship needs.  Experimentation can come in the formats of both physical and emotional.  For more information on ways that you can bring new life into your bedroom, with the use of experimentation, please continue reading on.

Do you and your partner currently rely on the use of sex toys?  If not, you may want to give them a try.  Sex toys can make sex more fun and exciting.  In fact, did you know that they can also help to make you feel young again?  Toys are available for multiple uses.  Concerning these items, it is also important to remember that you don’t have to go into “kinky,” territory.  There are accessories, such as a new outfits, blindfolds, and massage oils that also fall into the category.
 
Experimenting in the bedroom can also involve trying a new position.  As for the benefits of doing so, a new intimate position tends to increases excitement and satisfaction levels.  Did you also know that it can increase the number of calories burned?  While we don’t always look at intimacy from the standpoint of exercise, it is an added benefit to take into consideration.  If you need ideas or suggestions, invest in a new Kama Sutra book.  Just remember that some positions look nice on paper, but they may be too difficult or unrealistic for you and your partner to try.
 
The use of romantic or pornographic movies can also be used as a way to experiment in the bedroom.  Before inciting intimacy with your partner, consider starting a movie.  Romantic and seductive movies can help to get you in the mood for what is about to come.  You may also get new fun and exciting ideas for the bedroom.  As for what you will find available for sale, subjects range from instructional sex movies all the way up to hard-core pornographic films.

Role playing can add new excitement to a sexual relationship that is in need of improvement. When role playing is involved, it is best to inquire about your partner’s desires and fantasies.  Ask your partner what kind of person or type of person they fantasize about.  If they don’t provide you with an answer, offer up a surprise.  Be sure to share your fantasies and desires with your partner as well.

The above mentioned ways are just a few of the many ways that you can revive your sex life.  Experimenting in the bedroom has proven successful for many couples and their relationships.  With luck, it may be able to do the same for your relationship.  With that said, it may be best to proceed with caution.

Before you implement these changes or ideas, discuss them with your partner. Do not make the mistake of assuming your partner will be “all game.”  To have a happy and healthy sex life, an open line of communication is important.  Comfort is also vital.  Intimacy should result in pleasure for both you and your partner, not discomfort or embarrassment.

500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets.
100 Great Sex Games For Couples By Michael Webb, Relationship Expert.